
Wedding Photography at Shendish Manor, Hemel Hempstead
The Apsley Suite seats 320 and has its own kitchen, and the venue's dry-hire FAQ allows a contained havan and a groom's entrance up the drive.
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Shendish Manor answers the questions most Asian couples ask first, in writing. The Apsley Suite can be taken on a dry-hire basis with its own kitchen, so your own caterer can work there, and the venue's 2024 dry-hire FAQ says a havan is no problem if it is contained and away from anything flammable, and that the groom can make his entrance up the drive.
Our studio is at 21 Joel St, Northwood HA6 1NU, photographing weddings since 2001 and rated 4.8 out of 5 from 580+ Google reviews. We photograph weddings of every tradition and are glad to photograph at Shendish Manor; coverage starts from £750. Below is what the venue publishes, and what it does not.
Shendish Manor: capacity, catering and parking
| Address | London Road, Apsley, Hemel Hempstead HP3 0AA |
|---|---|
| Apsley Suite | 50 to 320 daytime guests; 320 dining or 280 with a dance floor. The 2024 dry-hire FAQ gives a maximum of 520 on round tables with no dance floor or bar |
| Manor House | 15 to 96 guests during the day and up to 160 for the evening reception |
| Ceremonies | Licensed indoors and outdoors. The pages differ: indoor ceremonies of 10 to 320 in the Apsley, Dickinson and Longman suites (ceremony page) and the Apsley licensed for 350 theatre style (2024 FAQ) |
| Catering | Dry hire with your own caterer; a caterer new to the venue needs a venue recommendation |
| Licence | Music and alcohol until midnight, which cannot be extended; residents' bar until 2am for staying guests |
| Bedrooms | 70; up to 15 held for the wedding night and up to 5 the night before |
| Grounds | 160 acres of parkland and formal gardens, including the Dutch Gardens |
| Parking | Complimentary. The pages differ on the count: 200 spaces, over 200, and 250 in the 2024 FAQ, which says spaces cannot be reserved |
| From our studio | About 9.1 miles in a straight line from the studio at 21 Joel St, Northwood HA6 1NU (road distance is longer) |
Figures are as published by the venue or its licensing authority. Where a venue's own pages disagree, both are shown. Confirm anything you are planning around.
Sources
- Shendish Manor: weddings
- Shendish Manor: multi-cultural dry hire weddings
- Shendish Manor: civil ceremonies
- Shendish Manor: Classic wedding package
- Shendish Manor: Elegance wedding package
- Shendish Manor: Intimate wedding package
- Shendish Manor: wedding accommodation
- Shendish Manor: wedding terms and conditions
- Shendish Manor: dry hire FAQs 2024 (PDF)
Shendish Manor packages for 2026 and 2027
Shendish Manor publishes package prices on its own pages. As printed there:
- Classic package, per adult: £128 on a Saturday and £119 on a Friday or Sunday in 2026; £133 and £124 in 2027.
- Elegance package, per adult: £148 on a Saturday and £139 on a Friday or Sunday in 2026; £153 and £144 in 2027.
- Teenagers are half price, children aged 4 to 12 are £28.50, and 10 per cent comes off January to March and October to November.
- Saturday minimums: 65 adults in the Manor House, 95 adults in the Apsley Suite.
- Intimate package for 15 to 45 guests on set dates: £2,250 for 15 guests in 2026 and £2,500 in 2027, with additional guests at £150 each.
- Multi-cultural dry hire, in Amber, Ruby and Sapphire tiers: from £6,000 up to £17,500, depending on year, month and day (no year stated).
- Civil ceremonies with the Classic and Elegance packages start from £650 (no year stated).
- An outside caterer signs a caterer contract and pays a £500 deposit.
Havan, mandap and baraat: what the 2024 dry-hire FAQ allows
What Shendish Manor publishes, mostly in its 2024 dry-hire FAQ and its wedding terms:
- Licensed for civil ceremonies indoors and outdoors, with an outdoor gazebo. The weddings page says "our licensed garden gazebo", the ceremony page mentions two outdoor gazebos, and the FAQ gives the gazebo a licence for 320: ask which applies.
- Havan: "Yes this is no problem at all, as long as it is contained and not near anything flammable."
- Mandap: not provided by the venue; you book it through an external company. The Apsley Suite ceiling is 3.23m, at its lowest 3.00m, which decides the canopy height.
- Baraat: the groom may make his entrance up the drive for a mandap ceremony, for no longer than 15 minutes; tell the venue in advance if a horse is involved.
- Drums: the terms allow them only outside the front of the venue between 10:00 and 20:00; the FAQ says in front of the hotel and in the Apsley Suite in the same hours. Ask which applies.
- The venue can host two weddings or events on the same day; an event in the Manor House closes the Manor House, its car park and grounds to the other party.
- The couple contact the Hemel Hempstead registrars directly; the venue cannot book them.
Shendish Manor rules: no drones, confetti outside, garden doors at 21:00
| Drones | Not allowed anywhere within the venue grounds |
|---|---|
| Confetti | Allowed outside if biodegradable and your caterers are happy to clear it; confetti cannons are not allowed |
| Fireworks and lanterns | No fireworks or Chinese lanterns; no sparklers inside |
| Candles and open flame | Havan allowed if contained and away from anything flammable; table candle stands allowed away from flammables and children |
| Smoke and haze | No haze machines, dry ice or smoke machines |
| Sound | The Apsley sound limiter is set by the licensing officer at about 90dB on the dance floor, and music cuts out if the fire doors are opened |
| Apsley gardens | Exclusive 9am to 9pm, or until the DJ or band starts; the doors to the gardens close at 21:00 because the venue is in a residential area |
| Finish time | Music and alcohol licence until midnight, which cannot be extended; caterers clear the Apsley Bar before 1am |
| Flash | Not published |
Where a rule is shown as not published, ask the venue in writing before the day.
Bedrooms the night before, and the wedding-night suite
Shendish Manor has 70 bedrooms and holds up to 15 for the wedding night and up to 5 for the night before. What each package includes, as published:
- Classic: a complimentary Four Poster bedroom for the couple on the wedding night, check-in from 3pm.
- Elegance: a Manor double bedroom the night before (check-out 11:00 on the day) and the Four Poster on the night.
- Dry hire, Sapphire tier: a standard bedroom the night before, with upgrade fees.
- The dry-hire FAQ calls the wedding-night room a complimentary Bridal Suite, check-in 15:00.
No separate daytime dressing room is named, so the night-before room is the getting-ready room unless you book more.
A planning outline for an Asian wedding at Shendish Manor
| When | What happens |
|---|---|
| Morning | Getting ready in the room booked for the night before; the wedding-night suite is available from 15:00. |
| Baraat (10:00 to 20:00) | Groom's entrance up the drive, no longer than 15 minutes, with drums only inside the published hours. Tell the venue about a horse in advance. |
| Ceremony | Mandap ceremony indoors with a contained havan, or a civil ceremony in a licensed room or gazebo. |
| Portraits | Dutch Gardens, which the venue names for drinks and photographs, timed by the light table. No drones. |
| By 21:00 | Doors to the Apsley gardens close at 21:00. In midsummer that is before sunset, so take garden portraits earlier. |
| Until midnight | Music and alcohol licence ends and cannot be extended. No fireworks or lanterns. |
An outline for planning, not a schedule. Times are shown only where the venue publishes them; everything else is a stage to time with you and confirm with the venue.
Light by month at Apsley, Hemel Hempstead
| Month | Sunrise | Sunset | Golden hour from | Clock |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| January | 08:02 | 16:21 | 15:23 | GMT |
| February | 07:17 | 17:16 | 16:27 | GMT |
| March | 06:17 | 18:06 | 17:21 | GMT |
| April | 06:06 | 19:59 | 19:13 | BST |
| May | 05:10 | 20:48 | 19:58 | BST |
| June | 04:43 | 21:22 | 20:27 | BST |
| July | 05:01 | 21:14 | 20:22 | BST |
| August | 05:46 | 20:26 | 19:39 | BST |
| September | 06:36 | 19:17 | 18:33 | BST |
| October | 07:26 | 18:09 | 17:23 | BST |
| November | 07:20 | 16:12 | 15:18 | GMT |
| December | 08:02 | 15:52 | 14:50 | GMT |
Computed for the 15th of each month of 2027 at the venue's postcode centroid with the NOAA solar equations. Evening golden hour starts when the sun drops to 6 degrees; trees and buildings shorten it. Times are UK clock time.
A contained havan, a 15-minute baraat and a 3.23m ceiling
- The Apsley Suite's own kitchen means your caterer works on site, so food service runs to time and the reception schedule holds.
- A contained havan is permitted, so the fire can stay in the ceremony pictures. Ask the decorator to keep the mandap clear of flammable drapes, which the rule requires anyway.
- The baraat has 15 minutes on the drive. Agree the start point and the route with us beforehand so the arrival is covered from the front.
- The garden doors close at 21:00, earlier than summer sunsets, so plan the golden-hour portraits around that rather than around the light alone.
- With a 3.23m ceiling, falling to 3.00m, a tall mandap canopy sits close to the lights. Overhead angles are limited, so we plan the ceremony coverage from the sides and the aisle.
- Two weddings can run on the same day. Ask where the other party will be so group photographs avoid their arrivals.
The 1853 Manor House, the Apsley Suite and the Dutch Gardens
The Manor House dates from 1853 and sits in 160 acres of parkland and formal gardens, including the Dutch Gardens, onto which both the Manor House and the Apsley Suite open. The venue does not publish a listing grade, and we have not asserted one. The contemporary Apsley Suite is the working room for a large Asian wedding: bigger, plainer and with its own kitchen.
Apsley, the M1 and the West Coast Main Line
London Road, Apsley, Hemel Hempstead HP3 0AA. Hemel Hempstead station at Boxmoor is on the West Coast Main Line to London Euston, and the M1 and M25 meet nearby. We travel to Shendish Manor from our Northwood studio and plan the morning around your preparation location.
Complimentary parking at Shendish Manor, and the three counts
Parking is complimentary. The weddings page gives 200 spaces, the dry-hire page says over 200, and the 2024 dry-hire FAQ says 250 spaces that cannot be reserved. The wedding terms add that caterers unload at the front at quiet times and then park at the far end of the car park, and that an event in the Manor House means the other party cannot use the Manor car park.
Shendish Manor wedding photography, frequently asked questions
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